The topic of how to chase girls is something we have been discussing all the time. I think everyone has their own method, so I won’t go into too much detail here. What I want to share with you today is the five ways to chase girls. Stages! These 5 stages are crucial! So if you want to pursue the girl you like, learn about these five stages first!
The first stage: Attraction
After getting to know a girl, don’t do anything else. You only need to do one thing, which is to attract her, attract her, attract her. Say the important things three times.
Then how to attract girls?
Remember, value creates attraction, and girls only like good men. In fact, men are the same. Most men like young, beautiful and good-looking girls. This kind of girl, when you look at her, you like her very much. She doesn't need to do anything. Why do you like her? Because she has the value you pursue.
If a girl is very old, ugly, fat, and short, and you can’t eat lunch after meeting her, then no matter how nice this kind of girl is to you, will you like her? She said to you : "I cook for you every day and wash your clothes every day. I only want you to be a man. I am sincere to you." But will you like her?
Many boys have a misunderstanding. , what he thinks, when I chase a girl, I have to try my best to be nice to her, spend money on her, care about her and take care of her. If this happens over time, I will impress her and she will fall in love with me. This kind of The idea is completely wrong.
Think about the example just now, that old, ugly, short and fat person, no matter how nice she is to you, will you like her? Girls like you, not because of what you did, but because of what you did. It's because you are a very good man, so the first stage of chasing a girl must be to attract her.
So what is value? If I am not handsome and have no money, do I have no attraction at all?
No, there are actually many things that can attract girls. For example, your youthful sunshine that loves sports, your cleanliness, your humor, your love, your ambition, your maturity, your bravery, your muscles, even your arrogance, etc. can all become Value points to attract girls.
Second stage: sense of security
Think about it, when a girl is attracted to you, she thinks you are excellent, and she likes you very much, what will she think in her heart at this time? , the first thing she thought about was, I like him very much, then does he like me?
If I just like him and he doesn’t like me, we talk back and forth, and in the end he takes over my body He got some cheap money and then dumped me, what should I do?
So at this stage, what girls need most is a sense of security. You have to tell her that you are serious through your words and deeds. Take this relationship seriously. You can care about her, praise her, and praise her unique qualities.Take the initiative to chat with her, take the initiative to date her, express your interest in her, but pay attention to the scale.
The third stage: enhancing the relationship
You also like her, and she also likes you. The relationship must move forward and seek breakthroughs. If you just talk about some ordinary content, you tell her that the takeout I ordered at noon today is not delicious at all, and the girl tells you that I was almost late because of the traffic jam this morning. You can't talk about this kind of boiled water content for ten years. If you can't become a couple, you must talk about some topics between lovers, even ambiguous topics. Of course, you must hold hands and hug during the date.
The fourth stage: Intimacy
Intimacy is a call and a heart-to-heart. For example, you kissed her on a date today, but you can't just ignore her after the date. You should give her a hug before leaving. After you go home, call her again, say good night to her, and go to bed early. You will go hiking together to watch the sunrise. If she can't walk, you will carry her on your back. This stage is also the most enjoyable and emotional stage for girls.
The fifth stage: establishing the relationship
I won’t say much about this stage. I believe you all know that with the first four stages, this stage will naturally come naturally.
Note: There are so many ways to pursue girls, but the premise is that you have to know the girl you want to pursue, and stay at home every day. A girlfriend will not fall in front of you from the sky.
Therefore, everyone should participate in more activities on our fun platform, expand your social circle, get to know more people of the opposite sex, and then use the methods I mentioned to pursue you. Remember that you must be at the right stage to pursue girls. Do the right thing~!
