Some people say that living together before marriage is a good thing, while others say that living together before marriage is a bad thing. In my opinion, living together as a couple has both good and bad qualities. But if you must live together, you must know the precautions for couples living together in advance. This is not only responsible for you but also for the woman, so let’s take a look today.
1. When choosing a house, you should consider the distance and time for two people to go to work. Commuting too far will not only be tiring, but also It’s really nice to get up early enough to disturb the other person’s sleep, go out together at about the same time, and have breakfast together.
2. You will be very tired when moving. Packing luggage, moving heavy objects, and contacting the moving company. It is easy for two people to quarrel. But in fact, it is not because of what the other person did that dissatisfied you. It’s just that Simply because I feel bad looking at the messy items.
3. Often add a little color to life, go out to play on weekends, invite friends to your home or have a dinner party with friends, occasionally go out for a good meal on weekday evenings, and watch after returning home Watching movies and playing games, if you go home every day and do your own thing, with little interaction and little interaction, it will just be one more person in the room, which will be very boring, and it will be no different from living alone.
4. After living together, they must adapt to each other’s living habits. Both parties must reveal their truest selves and tolerate and accept the other’s living habits. The influence of the original family is great, and the two people need to constantly adjust. , if there are any particularly unacceptable points, be sure to mention them. If you tolerate it for a while, big problems will definitely occur in the long run.
5. The work and rest time of two people may be inconsistent. Maybe the other person is a night owl, or maybe the other person likes to sleep in. When two people get along in a small space, they need to take a step back and coordinate with each other.
6. Live together and share the housework. Doing housework is not an obligation or a burden, but a responsibility. It is shared by two people. Participate in the contribution to this small family, understand each other, support each other and don't be too fussy. Whether both parties share the housework equally, the two can play some small games to see their luck in doing housework. It is fun and fair. The winner will help the loser do a small part, and the other party will be happier and actively do the housework.
7. When two people living together must understand each other and have similar views on money, they must develop the habit of keeping accounts, not to divide the accounts, but to not keep track of where the money has gone. As the saying goes, "If you are not a householder, you don't know how expensive firewood, rice, oil, and salt are." It is recommended to establish a common fund and deposit it into it regularly. It can be used when you need to eat or buy items for the family.
8. There are tens of millions of roads, safety is the first priority, if you drive irregularly, you will become a parent in the coming year.
Okay, the above are the things that the editor brings to you today for couples to pay attention to when living together. Have you all remembered them? But I still want to mentionLet me remind everyone, legalize the relationship as soon as the time comes, otherwise it will be harmful to girls.
