It is said that a girl’s thoughts are difficult to figure out. Even if you chat with her, you don’t know whether she likes you or not. She will not take the initiative to chat with you. She may have been quite enthusiastic about you before, but the details are unclear. The sudden coldness makes many boys want to pursue her but don't know where to start. Let me share with you the signs that a girl has a crush on you. If she has a crush on you, then boldly pursue her.
1. Doesn’t exclude you from getting to know her
When you ask a girl for information and daily life, as long as she doesn’t reject you and tells you and is willing to answer your questions, it means that the girl loves you. Has a basic favorability.
But boys must be careful not to always ask for girls’ information. There is a principle in chatting called “give first, take later”. Give your information first, and then exchange the girl’s information. Only by going there can we continue the conversation. For example:
"I have been to that restaurant before. What is in it is its signature, do you like it?"
"My major in university and employment are also the same. It doesn’t match, but what’s my reason? What’s your reason?”
“I studied and worked there for a while, so I’m familiar with that area. What do you like to eat?” Maybe I can give you a try.”
2. Be willing to take the initiative to let you know her
When a girl can When she takes the initiative to stir up a topic, or takes the initiative to share her life and feelings with you, and lets you get to know her, it means that she has a higher liking for you. For example:
"We have to work overtime and have meetings on weekends, it's so annoying!"
"It's very difficult to make an appointment at that hotel, but I finally made an appointment this time, I'm so happy!"
"No one asked me to hang out when I was home during the holidays, so boring."
These words are used in the relationship between men and women. Once they are said by a girl, it is a very typical relationship heating up. characteristics, it means that a girl is already very interested in you. In her psychological classification, you have officially entered her "intimate circle". In addition, as time gradually warms up the relationship, the success rate of your pursuit will be greatly improved. .
3. Interested in taking the initiative to get to know you
Meaning that the entire chat process, except for you taking the initiative to get to know you In addition to her, she will also take the initiative to ask questions to understand information and daily life related to you. For example:
Girls start to take the initiative to ask you things: what are you doing, what are you busy with recently, and where are you posting in Moments.
Even deeper, when a girl asks you: What are your hobbies, your opinion on something, and what are your plans, this girl is not only interested in you, she My thoughts on you are becoming more and more inclined.
However, this is also veryThe first bottleneck that many boys encounter in their pursuit is that girls will not take the initiative to get to know you.
You are puzzled and don’t know why this is happening.
Then I want to ask you: What is there about you that is worthy of her understanding?
Your circle of friends is full of innocuous news. When chatting, you just hang around girls, and you don’t show yourself to girls to attract her to get to know you.
If you want to catch up with a girl, you must first make her want to know you: Do you have to clean up your image? Do you want to make a good impression? Do you have to manage your own circle of friends to make girls want to get to know you better? Do you need to further demonstrate your value in chat to further attract girls? If you blindly cater to, please, and hang around girls, how can she want to get to know you?
