If you want to know whether a person likes you or not, it is actually very simple. Just look at whether the other person needs you. Then in what form does the need appear? Just look at these 6 points:
1. Initiative
When a person likes you, he will inevitably reveal his initiative, but the degree of exposure is different. There is no such thing as a "slow-warmer" person. Not taking the initiative."
Therefore, if a person dares to take the initiative to promote a relationship with you, and every time he gets enthusiastic feedback from you, he can boldly develop the relationship. This is actually a sign that he likes you.
I am willing to take the initiative to add you, and after you agree, I am willing to take the initiative to chat with you. The two parties have a heated conversation, and the other party is willing to take the initiative to ask you out. It seems like a wonderful fate, but it is actually the other party's orderly arrangement. Advance.
On the contrary, if a person only takes the initiative in phases and has hot and cold behavior from time to time, either your enthusiastic feedback is not adequate, or he does not like you that much and just wants to be with you. Just try your luck on me.
2. Demands are always exposed in chats
If a person is chatting, high-frequency occurrences The following topics:
① What are you doing? / Good morning! / Good night!
② Change the game to a lover symbol!
③ When is your birthday? Yeah?
④Why don’t you want to fall in love yet?
⑤It would be great if I had a boyfriend/girlfriend like you.
That is enough to prove that "this person is somewhat interesting to you."
Similarly, when this person chats with you, he will always intentionally or unintentionally direct the topic to the life, love, and future of the two people together, such as asking about your hobbies, views on love, criteria for choosing a spouse, and the future. Planning, etc., this is also a manifestation of wanting to be ambiguous with you.
Moreover, a person who likes you will also like to give each other an exclusive nickname from time to time, thereby further establishing "each other's uniqueness in each other's heart."
3. The direction towards you is unique
When a person really likes you After that, you will instantly lose the motivation to contact other people of the opposite sex.
From the perspective of intimate relationships, "really liking someone" is very energy-consuming. Regardless of whether he is a man or a woman, when he really falls in love, his mind is filled with the person he likes. There is no interest in other people of the opposite sex.
This also means that a boy who really likes you will only have you in his eyes, and the tenderness and enthusiasm he emits are your exclusive privileges.
If I really like it, I will definitely not ride a donkey to find a horse, let alone cast a net everywhere to catch fish., on the contrary, they will only be passionate about you and maintain clear boundaries for other people of the opposite sex.
Firstly, he doesn’t want you to misunderstand his feelings, and secondly, he himself doesn’t want to live up to his love.
4. Integrate into your life
If a person doesn’t like you that much, then he won’t take the initiative Understand your hobbies, social interactions, life, etc., because this is a time-consuming thing.
People who like you will pay special attention to everything around you and be curious and impulsive about your life.
This person will silently note down what you like and what you don’t like during the relationship between two people. He will only take you to your favorite restaurants and only take you to do the things you want to do. The behavior that always seems to "understand you" is actually the result of a lot of effort in secret.
Similarly, love also has a certain selfishness.
To put it bluntly, when a person wants to integrate into your life, he is also sending a signal to the people around you: "This person is almost famous and has a master, and other cats and dogs can leave." ".
5. Be consistent in words and deeds
When a person says to you "If you have any questions, come to me anytime", when you When you need him, he will definitely be there;
A person will say to you, "I will be free if you come to me." When you want someone to accompany you, he will definitely appear;
A When a person says to you, "Trust me, it's okay," when you want the result, he will definitely show it to you beautifully...
People who really like you will go for it. Taking the initiative to fulfill one's promises may seem a bit like licking the dog, but in fact it is because you are important in his heart that he is willing to pay for you.
On the contrary, a person who doesn’t like you that much may help you, but he will definitely not try his best, let alone you as the center, and you can also clearly feel that “ask him to help” , I must return the favor."
