In fact, ambiguity between a man and a woman can only mean that they have a certain fondness for each other, and it is a situation that can be advanced or retreated. If you take a step forward, the two people may become a couple, and if you take a step back, the two people may become strangers or friends. This is also the reason why many men and women are ambiguous but have no results. Let’s analyze for everyone the situations in which men and women are ambiguous but not together?
1. The love between a man and his concubine is just like breaking the window
This kind of ambiguity basically happens among students, people with little love experience or conservative people. Neither party takes the initiative because they are shy, reserved, want more contact to develop the relationship, or are unsure of the other party's attitude. Generally there is a positive relationship.
2. Dog licking and male/goddess style
This is also a relatively common way of ambiguity. The initiative will obviously be in the hands of a certain person, and the contact with the other party is purposeful. But they will not expressly say that they are together, but will constantly hint to the other party, "You have a chance", "I like you very much", "I don't want to fall in love now, but I need you very much and want to rely on you" and other messages, thus making the other party One party is in the position of a pursuer and keeps giving. The one who has the initiative should have a game mentality, or in order to achieve a certain goal, the other party is the pursuer. They often have the feeling of "we will be together soon" and "I am chasing the boy/goddess", and it is Give willingly.
3. They have not reached the emotional level where they must be together
The two people have a good impression of each other and have a certain relationship. We have a tacit understanding, but we don’t like each other enough. There may be some practical reasons that prevent us from being together. We often have feelings of love but feel that there are some shortcomings. We don’t understand each other well, we don’t have enough money, one party is not confident enough or there are other reasons that lead to the two people not being satisfied with each other as friends or lovers. .
4. Extramarital affair/cheating
It is obvious that one or both parties are already in love/marriage, but cheating for various reasons. This experience should be tense. Excitement, maybe a certain sense of moral shame, the pleasure of renewed heartbeat, wanting to be together at all costs but worrying about lovers and public opinion.
5. Playing casually
One or both parties do not pay attention to the essence of the relationship, and each takes his or her own way. Needing, hanging, in short, a very casual attitude towards the relationship between the two, and being able to accept the end of the relationship at any time.
6. Special relationship type
In addition to normal contact, the two people also retain special relationships such as SM and distant relatives, but they are subordinate to any of the above ambiguous relationships.
7. Self-motivating style
This is a bit like unrequited love or secret love. One party in the relationship is completely unmoved, or has no knowledge of this feeling, while the other party is not interested in the relationship due to different reasons. This reason can only remain in ambiguity alone.
8. Tacit attitude
This usually develops by accident, but obviously both parties recognize and enjoy this ambiguous attitude, which is consistent with " Different from "I don't like it so much that I have to be together", this kind of ambiguity may be "clearly just want to be ambiguous" or "cannot be officially together for some reason". In my opinion, it is a bit like the tacit understanding of two Neptunes.
In short, ambiguity is a preparation for the formal establishment of a certain relationship. There are many people who are ambiguous but not together. If you are in an ambiguous relationship, please carefully distinguish whether the other party's purpose is friendly and inappropriate ambiguity. Refuse promptly
