Regarding falling in love, many singles think it is a difficult thing. In fact, falling in love is not difficult. On the contrary, it is very simple. It is just doing what you like with the person you like. This is almost a simple matter. It is a biological instinct, so let’s briefly talk about love.
First, about chat
First of all, I want to interpret a small detail of the chat .
If a girl often responds to your messages instantly during chat, she most likely likes you.
Some singles may be worried, what if a girl responds to everyone instantly? It doesn’t matter.
You just need to pay attention to whether the girl has explained to you what she did just now when she doesn’t reply immediately. If she says she was busy just now, it means you are very important to her and she cares about your feelings.
If you still haven’t waited for this opportunity, it doesn’t matter. I’ll teach you a little trick. Girls will give special notes to people who are important to them.
Find a time to send her a long string of gibberish first, and then don’t say anything. After a while, the girl will definitely ask you what you meant by what you just posted. Then you have to pretend to be more confused than her and say, "I don't know. I didn't send anything." Then ask her to send you a screenshot. Take a look. At this time, you can see the notes she saved for you, and by the way, you can find out your position in her heart.
Second, about dating
I believe that friends must have heard this saying: "A woman should please herself." "Appearance", you can observe whether girls pay more attention to their appearance when they meet you.
Of course, it is not ruled out that many girls love to be beautiful, and they do this to everyone. You can remember this sentence:
"Girls like to wear skirts, but you say you She likes floral skirts. She may wear a skirt for herself, but if she wears a floral skirt, it must be for you. "What does it mean? When you are getting along with girls, you can inadvertently mention it. A small suggestion, go back and see if the girl has adopted your suggestion. And the more difficult it is to implement, the more illustrative it is.
For example, if you tell a girl, "Hey, I think you would look better if you cut your hair short," a girl who likes you will definitely take your words to heart, and there is a high probability that she will do it the next time you meet. Got a short haircut.
But, friends, your advice cannot be unrealistic. Otherwise, if you tell a girl, "I think you look better with a bald head," and the girl hits you later, don't say that I taught you. ah.
Three, why doesn’t she like you?Do
Last point, if your chatting and dating with a girl are not going well, and the girl’s feedback has not been very good, in fact, it is meaningless for you to judge whether she has a crush on you at this time. There is a high probability that he will not like it.
So what you should do now is to cultivate good feelings first by creating common experiences or exchanging common feelings.
How to do it specifically? For example, if you ask a girl to have dinner, the girl has been playing with her mobile phone and is not very willing to talk to you. If this trend develops, the probability of this date is It's cold.
If you really can’t find a topic, you can go to the bathroom and send me a private message to Shugen for help, buy the order first, and when you return to your seat, ask the girl after she finishes eating. , "Have you ever had Overlord Meal?" Then he took her hand and left the restaurant.
Believe me, girls will never forget this meal in their lifetime.
This little routine uses the principle of "collusion" in psychology, which refers to doing a "bad thing" with a girl, and only the two of you know about it.
Friends, falling in love is actually not as difficult as you think.
