Many times when we muster up the courage to confess to a girl, of course we hope that the girl will agree to it, so that we can be together naturally. But the reality is not satisfactory to me. Maybe you confess your love to a girl, but she neither refuses nor accepts it. So what should you do in this situation?
Confessing to a girl means neither rejecting nor accepting
If you confess to a girl and the girl neither agrees nor refuses, do you know what she means? There are generally two types of situations:
The first situation is that a girl is going to use you as a backup. Many times when a girl doesn’t reply to you, she is not considering whether to accept you, but is considering how to accept you. reject you. Kind-hearted girls will reject you nicely and make you give up, but what you are about to meet is a scumbag. Let me tell you that I don’t want to fall in love now, let’s talk about it later. If you are hung up by ambiguous words like this, you won’t pursue her. It's a pity if I catch you, but I can't catch you if I chase you. I'll treat you as a spare tire. It's a good test for girls to treat you as a spare tire. Just send a red envelope to the girl and leave a message saying, "It's okay if it bothers us to be friends. If the girl accepts you, just run away."
In the second case, you confess your love too quickly. Compared with boys, girls’ love will be better. It's slow to warm up. It's very easy for boys to confess their love to you at the beginning. The girl is still testing you and has a crush on you. If you suddenly confess your love to a girl, the girl will definitely be at a loss. After all, he is not completely attracted to you yet. , but I also have a crush on you. I can’t agree to you or want to reject you, so I can only observe you again and see if I can be a lover.
What to do if a girl neither refuses nor accepts your confession
In fact, no matter what situation a girl is in, after you confess your love, the distance between you and the girl will be different. You will be alienated, so brothers, it is better not to blindly confess your love. Unless you can guarantee with 99% chance that the girl likes you, otherwise as long as you confess your love, it will definitely do more harm than good. But, as long as you are not rejected by a girl, you still have room for redemption. I will teach you three tricks to make girls fall in love with you, so that you can be with girls without having to confess your feelings.
The first trick is to cut off the topic when the chat atmosphere is at its highest. End the topic when the chat atmosphere is at its highest. From now on, you can just find an excuse to run away. Don’t worry, the girl will not be angry with you. On the contrary, Well, I will also be immersed in chatting with you. I am looking forward to chatting with you next time.
The second step is to let girls discover your unique side, for example, you can cook or bartend. Being able to take pictures, or play musical instruments, etc., these can make girls shine and make them feel that they don’t know you well enough. Girls, on the other hand, will try to get to know you again with curiosity and expectation. You, when a girl wants to explore you more, you have alreadyMore than half done.
The third and final trick is to create a sense of crisis and follow the herd. The heart tells us that the more people pursue something, the more attractive it will be, so the better you perform, the more you perform. When a girl chases you, her unwillingness to admit defeat will be touched, and she will want you more and more. Moreover, when a girl feels that you are very popular, she will have a strong sense of crisis. When the time comes, she is the one who takes the initiative to chase you. How about it? Have you learned the lesson?
