Many people choose to be single because they are afraid of marriage and pregnancy. We will not make too many comments here. But there are still people who really want to fall in love, but just can’t find a girlfriend. So what is the reason why these boys are passively single?
1. Chasing girls will only kneel and lick them
In the female world, there is an eternal truth: women like pugs, but they will never be with boys who are like dogs. Together.
I once met a boy who pursued more than 20 girls to no avail. Although his conditions are not good, they are definitely not bad. He is the type who doesn't take the initiative and almost no girls take the initiative to like him.
Why did he pursue various types of girls with no results?
The reason is-he only kneels down and licks girls when he pursues them. Breakfast delivered every day, instant response within 20 hours, responsive to girls' requests, standing downstairs all night to show their sincerity, but the result? They all refused.
Touched? It doesn’t exist.
Kneeling and licking is often the least efficient but most expensive way to pursue something. If a girl is not interested in you from the beginning, then even if you lick her to the end of the world, your upper limit will only be "boyfriend".
The kind of boy who chases a girl with average conditions and only knows how to kneel and lick her. In all likelihood, he is a boy who has a strong desire to fall in love but has never had a legitimate experience.
2. Words are not worthy of personal charm
Little boys who have never been in love love it most One thing he does is - when he meets a girl he likes, he tells the world that "I won't marry her unless she is her". Even before her hair grows, she puts on a "I'm the most awesome" attitude.
What is the result?
If this boy is really a domineering CEO with strong financial strength, it would be fine, but the reality is that this boy does not dare to type when chatting with girls. It is difficult I met a girl. I hesitated for a long time and started sweating in my pants. A giant in words, a dwarf in action.
If you don’t have strong personal value support, such “bold words” will only make girls feel that “this boy is unreliable and unreasonable”. In addition to reducing the already low charm, other Useless.
He is the kind of boy who "punches hard behind the scenes but is submissive in reality". It can be seen at a glance that this young man has never been in love.
He may have had people he liked, but they were all scared away by what he did.
3. Only play secret love
There is a kind of boy who will uphold such a thought:
"As long as the girl is not married, then I will There is still a chance."
But they never express their feelings, they only lurkPlaying with crushes around girls. In the end, he was the one who accompanied the girl all the way, but the girl never had a single thought about him.
Until one day, such a boy mustered up the courage to confess his love. As a result, the girl opened her eyes wide and said to him, "Aren't we good friends? I never thought you would think about it in that way."< /p>
The boy came to the rescue awkwardly and said, "How could I like you? I'm just kidding you!" At this point, the boy still didn't give up and continued to play the role of "boyfriend" with peace of mind, secretly vowing "as long as I persevere." , the iron pestle will always be ground into a needle."
The result? I became a bridesmaid for a girl. When I was desperate, I would comfort myself by saying, "The highest state of love is - her happiness is all."
A good boy. , he just lived the first half of his life as a "painful drama".
The kind of boy who, when it comes to love, says that he has had a "secret crush on a girl for three or even five years" doesn't need to think too much. He has never been in love. He has always been with his girlfriend. Fantasy about falling in love.
4. Serious self-imposed limitations
Some boys, when they meet a girl they like, This will lead to thoughts like this:
“Forget it, her ex-boyfriend is so rich, why should he fall in love with me?”
“Come on, I’m not tall or handsome. You don’t know how to flirt with girls, so don’t ask for trouble.”
What’s more, he will actively find faults in girls
“This girl must not look good without makeup. ”
“With so little clothes on, he must be a green tea girl who has had countless men and is unreliable.”
Such a boy can be summed up in two points: not only is he lazy, but he is also a coward. , and also likes to have a bad mouth.
Let’s say these boys have low self-esteem. They are also willing to find faults with other girls to find reasons for themselves to be single. Call them arrogant, but when they really face the girl they like, they can't beat a fart with three sticks, and they feel that they have no hope from the beginning.
Such boys almost never take the initiative. Even if they meet a girl they particularly like, they will give in without a fight and start to find various reasons to convince themselves to settle for the status quo.
Such boys often have one thing in common that can be seen at a glance:
They live in their own little world, scolding girls for materialism on the anonymous Internet, and He complains about being single, and sets limits for himself crazily in the real world. Even if you encourage him to take the initiative, he will find various reasons to imply that he is not good enough, or to vilify other girls.
5. Habitual emotional override
You must have encountered territorial and possessive people around you. A very strong boy.
It is obvious that he likes girls unilaterally.The girl at home didn't like him at all, and didn't even have a good impression of him. The boy began to restrict the girl's freedom as a "boyfriend."
When a girl meets other members of the opposite sex, the boy becomes jealous instantly and begins to blame the girl for not being single-minded, messing around with men and women, and even restricting the girl’s freedom.
This is also one of the types of boys that girls dislike most - he has no ability to prove himself, but he has to put his feelings above girls.
Such a boy not only annoys girls, he is also prone to do many extreme things, and even makes girls afraid of making friends with him.
Before a relationship is established, boys begin to use various methods to force away the opposite sex around girls; when they are not even friends, boys begin to show off their affection in the circle of friends, pretending to be pseudo-boyfriends.
A boy who is aggressive, possessive, has low emotional intelligence, but is not liked by girls at all. In fact, you can tell at a glance that "he probably has never been in love."
Therefore, for that kind of boy who has mediocre personal value, but extremely high vision, and is very confident that he can get true love, no need to look at it. Not only has he never been in love, but if he doesn't change his mind, he will never have any chance of love in his life.
