A boy who disgusts a girl will basically be thrown into the cold palace in the early stage of getting to know her, and there is basically no possibility of chasing her. Therefore, in addition to some routines and techniques when chasing girls, the most important thing is to avoid some minefields and don’t be too aggressive. As soon as she started pursuing someone, she became disgusted with him. So what kind of boys do girls dislike?
1. Excessive narcissism
< p> Many boys are naturally narcissistic. They always think they know everything and can do everything. They boast all kinds of things in front of girls and are not allowed to refute. Obviously everyone expresses their own opinions on a matter, as if what they say is the truth, and they have to correct other people's ideas.It took a lot of effort not to show off that I had a brain, but when I opened my circle of friends, I wanted to post 800 status messages a day, and I thought I had added a WeChat business. If you post those videos and photos that look like copies every day, I’m afraid all people will feel is annoyance.
We often say that we need to tidy up our appearance and enrich our inner connotation. There is nothing wrong with this, but you can’t use it as capital to show off. Don't make such stupid mistakes when chasing girls. Girls may not say anything, but in fact they have despised you eight hundred times in their hearts.
2. Frivolous words and deeds
Some boys, when it comes to the words that come out of their mouths, they are Nothing at all.
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However, it’s always next time and next time. There are many promises, but I have never seen him actually take action.
Later, no one believed what he said, and no one even bothered to pretend to be polite. At this time, he could only deceive the new girl he met, but that could only be short-lived.
It’s just talk but no action. The scary thing is that you thought he was just stingy, but you didn’t expect that he just likes to write bad checks, and on the other hand, he flirts with countless girls.
They were still talking about the most ambiguous love words at this moment, but they turned around and became strangers.
3. A sense of sophistication
In fact, most of us have an inertia, that is, we are obsessed with those who are better than ourselves. Young people feel that since they are older and have experienced more things, they are qualified to preach to others.
But times have changed. People of their parents' generation always like to say: "I have walked on more bridges than you have walked on, so you are right to listen to me."
But as for today's young people, they will look back. : "The more you walk, the more you walk. I have my own way of living."
They like to use two sentences to summarize and guide their lives: "It's none of your business" and "It's none of my business."
So don’t expect to use your own values ????to guide other people’s life paths.
Although we have said that many girls like boys who are more mature than themselves. However, truly mature people should know that not interfering with other people's choices is the greatest respect.
What girls like to be mature is that you can be worldly, and it is best to help me deal with worldliness, but don’t be worldly to me, let alone try to make me worldly.
4. If you like someone you like
When you meet a girl you like, you can always find a chance to chat. After two times, I told people, "Aren't we friends?" "Don't be polite to me when friends help each other."...
Do you know what the other person is thinking? Why? Are you friends? Have you agreed?
Being so anxious to close the relationship makes it difficult for people not to doubt your motives.
Like I said before, even if you are chasing a girl and the other girl knows that you like her, you should not step into the role of her boyfriend too quickly, as it can easily backfire.
Therefore, making friends should be done step by step, and don’t get acquainted easily. Unless a girl likes you, it is easy to leave the impression of a "sophisticated person" on the other party.
When people talk about greasiness, they may think of middle-aged uncles. In fact, greasiness has nothing to do with age, but is related to behavior.
