For many boys, height is not something they can control. Some boys are born short. So when the girl you are pursuing dislikes you because you are short, is there any hope of pursuing her?<br/ >
First of all, you must know that the key to chasing a girl you like is to increase the value of your advantages and hide the value of your disadvantages. Compared with boys who do not have an advantage in height, the first thing to do when chasing a girl is to find a way to hide this shortcoming and offset the negative impact this shortcoming brings to you.
So what should be done specifically? There are two strategies here:
1. Make up for it with long-term improvement Short
2. Find someone who doesn’t care about your height, or in other words, your height is not a shortcoming in her eyes
I don’t think I need to say more about the first strategy. , because most people will think of this.
The choice of mate itself is based on a comprehensive score. As long as the individual scores are not too low, the comprehensive score can be used to make up for it:
For example, your education, your income level, your Your emotional intelligence, your appearance, etc.
Although height is difficult to change, other factors, even appearance, can be greatly improved through hard work. You should try your best to develop your extra points in other aspects. Make up for your height points until you end up with a good overall score.
By the way, let me tell you again, what do you think are the actual reasons for rejection of boys who are rejected because of their height?
Let me tell you the truth:
Excluding some extreme cases, most people not only have a problem with their height, but also have average scores in other aspects. Their height is just the reason why they are rejected. It's just an excuse. If I want to reject you, I have to find a reason.
When your other projects are average, projects that are not outstanding will become the reason for your rejection;
When your other projects are excellent, projects that are not outstanding will be the best at best. It's just a sentence "Flaws cannot hide the advantages".
The second strategy is worth thinking about. Why do some girls care so much about height? What kind of girls might not care about height?
The real answer may be completely different from what you think. , let’s take a look at the first intuitive answer:
Those short girls probably don’t care about height. What does she care about? She is already short enough, and everyone looks taller.
No, no, that’s not how it works. Think about it again:
When do people not care about something?
Or you are extremely lacking. , knowing that it has nothing to do with you, you will give up hope;
Or you are suppressingThere is no shortage at all. It doesn’t matter whether you have that thing or not. Anyway, you are not in shortage.
Most of the mainstream girls’ voices you hear do not fall into these two categories. They fall exactly in the middle:
Not tall, but not that short either.
Therefore, they will pay special attention to height in the process of choosing a mate, because they first want to have a partner to make up for themselves. On the other hand, the genes of future generations can also be guaranteed.
If you want to find girls who don’t care about height, you can’t find most of them. You have to find girls from both ends. Don’t worry. Fortunately, our country has a large population, so it’s not that difficult to find such girls.
Think about it carefully, for those girls around you who are taller among girls and not inferior to boys among boys, how many of them have boyfriends who are obviously taller than them?
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Most of them are actually similar to them, and those boys are not short among the boys, but they are definitely not tall.
So, if you want girls to not care about your short stature, you must either cultivate other factors to a higher level, or find a small group of people who don't care about this factor at all. With such a strategy, you can turn from passive to active in the mate selection process, like a fish in water.
