Girls always say that liking someone depends on their feelings, but do you know what feelings girls mean? Why don't girls have feelings for you? How can you make a girl feel for you? Let’s analyze these issues for everyone.
1. What is the feeling that the girl said?
The feeling that the girl said can be either a touching moment or some rigid conditions. For example:
An Aries girl likes the way you focus on your work and ignore her;
A Pisces girl likes you to fly around with her and have fun;
Virgo girls like your good cooking and keeping the kitchen spotless afterwards;
Including Taurus likes debates, Aquarius likes candlelight dinners, etc. .
For boys, it may not be easy to understand or don’t want to understand this difficult-to-define feeling of girls, so it is not wrong to use the unified explanation that girls like rich people! Of course, this is definitely not the case. Otherwise, would a boy with a monthly salary of less than 10,000 yuan deserve to be single for the rest of his life? Of course not.
In addition, based on my efforts to collect three-digit descriptions of girls’ feelings, the results are indeed strange: some say I have a strong affinity for men with slender fingers. Some say they like a protruding Adam's apple, and some say they like the sound of breathing, including the smell of their bodies. Of course, some say they like having a house and a car.
In fact, girls have very rich definitions of feeling. Everyone has different standards. Although they always say that they should rely on feeling, what exactly is feeling? No one can tell clearly.
In summary, girls’ feelings must be the result of comprehensive considerations. There is no definition of feeling. But boys, driven by rational thinking, insist on figuring out how women feel, so they can only use money. To describe it, because this feeling is unmistakable and no one will hate it.
Then what is the feeling that the girl is talking about? It feels like a girl likes you and gives you a reason. Likewise, it feels like girls are giving you an excuse if they don’t like you.
2. How to make a girl feel for you
Many boys will want to be nice to this girl when they meet someone they like, but there is no upper limit to being nice. Doing it will only continuously raise the other person's emotional threshold and make the other person feel that you are no different from other boys around you, unless you have money. Here comes the key point. The core is to make the other party pay more attention to you. Remember these two points:
First, understand the psychology of girls
The little things of girls Their thoughts are usually hidden by themselves. For example, if he doesn't come when he wants you to help, usually boys will accept it directly. But the actual situation is that when girls make a request, in order to avoid embarrassment, they will find reasons for rejection in advance. At this time it is necessaryYou should refuse first and let the girl tell you the reason before agreeing. You can even put forward some simple conditions of your own, which will make the other party feel that your cost is higher.
Second, think more from other people's perspective
Girls think emotionally, while boys focus on logical thinking. They are different. They care more about emotions rather than the matter itself, so they can have appropriate care, active contact and normal emotional output, but they must grasp a certain scale, otherwise it will become their own constant showing of goodwill, which is good. At a certain level, the other person will feel pressure and choose to stay away from you, so in the process of pursuit, you have to be different from other boys. Once the other person focuses more on you, the girl will feel this way. Right.
