Girls generally think more, so when chatting with the girl you like, the subtext revealed in your words will always affect the girl's favorability towards you. If you are not careful and say the wrong thing, It is likely to cause resentment among girls. Today, the editor will bring you 3 taboos when chatting with girls. Don’t touch them.
1. Worrying about gains and losses, having no independent opinion
Worrying about gains and losses is A man is hesitant and not good at making decisions, especially when chatting with a girl he likes. This kind of thinking will reveal your lack of scarcity towards girls, which is a low-value behavior. Women's judgments about men's value are often based on reverse analysis. For example, if a man who eats steamed buns every day gets a chance to eat cake, he will cherish this piece of cake. But if you worry too much about gains and losses and are afraid of losing, through reverse analysis, girls will come to the conclusion that you are a man who particularly needs women, or in other words, you are a man who is not popular with girls. If not, why do you show such a strong sense of scarcity?
When many boys are chasing girls, they often answer the wrong question. Use ten sentences to explain a certain sentence, for fear that women will lose their favor because of misunderstanding what you mean. But in fact, attracting girls doesn’t require you to have a perfect personality, and no one is perfect. Girls just want to find someone with whom they have "feelings" to fall in love with, not a moral role model. In fact, the more you deliberately show your perfect side, the more unreal and unnatural you will be in front of girls. Your unreality and unnaturalness will be passed on to girls, and they will choose to "disguise" themselves like you, making it difficult for your relationship to advance.
Having no opinion and not being able to lead are also the traits of boys that girls hate the most. Being with a girl is a process of feeling your life and feeling the charm of your personality. The core here is you, you have to lead and make arrangements. If you reveal your lack of opinion, your points will be instantly lost in girls' minds.
2. Too much pressure
Chasing girls should be based on Get along with girls in a relaxed and pleasant way. In the process, you can cultivate the girl's favorability towards you, gradually upgrade your relationship with the girl, and eventually you two will be happy. However, many straight men like to make this matter very loud, eager to tell everyone that they are pursuing a certain girl, and pretend that they will not marry her unless she is the girl. This kind of mentality must not be exposed when chasing a girl. .
You have to understand that if a girl likes you, your hearts will naturally come together. Before this, doing these behaviors would onlyAdd social pressure to female students. Originally, she might have some affection for you, but when you first came up, you acted like you didn't want her in this life. You let everyone else know that you wanted to pursue her. How could a girl dare to agree to your pursuit lightly? If she agrees to you and then regrets it when she finds it inappropriate, how will others evaluate her? Therefore, before exposing such stupid thoughts, first put yourself in the girl's shoes and think about her feelings.
The most important factor for a girl to accept someone is "feeling". The cultivation of feelings is best carried out in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. Accidentally, you held hands while having fun, and both of you blushed; in an accidental afternoon, the girl leaned on your shoulder.
3. Social evaluation
Girls are very concerned about their social evaluation. In historical periods, if women have a bad reputation in the relationship between men and women, the woman's life will be greatly affected, and she may even be unable to get married. This is a very bad nightmare. Therefore, social evaluation has a great impact on women.
Everyone hopes to leave a good impression on others and have a good social evaluation. Everyone will selectively keep a certain distance from others to protect their privacy. Girls will disguise their true side to some immature men or too naive men.
In the experience of many men, She will always meet some goddesses that make her yearn for, but when they learn the true side of the girls, they feel disappointed or even feel cheated. The reason is that the girl has not revealed her true side to you before, and what you have learned before is just the appearance. Girls used to only exist in their own fantasies. When girls show their true side, boys feel that they seriously do not meet their expectations.
Many people like to comment on girls at will when chatting with girls, or label girls. Once this kind of thinking is exposed when chasing girls, it will arouse their disgust, and they will choose to deliberately stay with you. distance. Because some of your comments will hurt the other person. You are just an immature little boy.
