Theoretically speaking, love should go to each other and give to each other. But some girls who are very flirtatious have been chatting with you for many days and want to be your boyfriend and girlfriend. A girl who is pretty and good at chatting is so proactive, and you agree without even thinking about it. Then the girl starts to ignore you, alternately being hot and cold. What's going on? Let me explain to you how to test whether a girl likes you? Do you know the scumbag's market test?
1. What is the test market for girls?
It is normal that you cannot understand the above questions, which proves that you are still very innocent. Because a girl agrees to be your partner does not mean that she will actually become your partner, but she wants to know what level of man she can get at her current level. Yes, you read that right, girls use you to "test the market."
Some boys said: "So I am a reference? She is using me to test her own charm? Not all girls are like this, so please stop fooling others."
Normally speaking, no one would use their love to measure their charm, but there are always a small number of people who do, and people all have vanity and are curious about whether they can get someone and who the person they get will be. hierarchical. For example, you may be curious about whether you can pursue a girl with a higher education than yourself? Can you catch a girl who is richer than you? Can you chase a girl who is taller than you? You must have been curious, I have this thought, I admit it.
Therefore, some girls will regard you as a reference. For example, if you are rich, handsome, and she expresses that she wants to date you, she will make some demands on you and want to stay at your house for a few days. , asking you to give her gifts, asking you to coax her, hinting that your boyfriend must be unconditionally obedient, etc. As long as you readily agree and she disappears without any news, it is "testing the market." If you encounter this situation, just do whatever you have to do. There is no need to ask for an explanation, others just want to have fun.
2. How to spot the scumbag’s test quotes
The purpose of the scumbag’s test quotes is to confirm her My own charm, not to fall in love with you. When a boy with your conditions can agree to be with her at any time, she feels that her market situation is quite good, and she will use you as a reference to offer more money to a boy with similar conditions to you, or even a boy with a higher value than you. High requirements, see if you can advance to a higher level.
When she tests you, she will even say to you enthusiastically:
"We haven't seen each other after chatting for so long, why don't we meet?"
< p> “I want to go drinking with you.”“I want you to help me move.”
Even after you agree, she doesn’t need your help. She just wants to confirm whether a boy with your conditions will easily agree to do things for her, then she will use you as a reference. Set higher requirements for the next boy who has similar conditions to you. If he passes it easily, he will raise higher requirements for the next boy.requirements. This is referred to as "test market".
Then if you have some good-looking girls in your life, the photos in your circle of friends are particularly beautiful, sexy, and very popular. They like to do this very much. They agree to your request very easily, but they take zero action. They chat absent-mindedly and say a few perfunctory words. When this happens, you have to pay attention. Their thoughts are likely to be the above.
They are not in a hurry to get things that can be obtained at any time, because people look up. So how do you know if others are testing you?
It’s very simple, ask the other person to do something for you, which is a little troublesome, such as helping you choose an outfit, asking her to treat you to dinner, making an appointment to see if she will cater to you and get closer. Are you conservative in your behavior or can't help but be close to you?
When you understand clearly, you can avoid most tests before agreeing, because "testing the market" emphasizes efficiency. Who wants to waste time and energy with a test product?
